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Fisting- Love united
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Gay Fisting is a sexual activity that uses the arm and forearm and insert them into the vagina or anus. Gay Fisting has been performed by various levels of community; from men to women, gays to lesbians. Although the word fisting may sound violent to those who haven’t heard of it before and feeling awkward about it, it is actually a very common thing in the nation.
The words gay fisting can be replaced by handballing and fist fucking. Some may argue that fisting seems less popular among the bi or straight community compared to the lesbian and gay group. However, we cannot deny the truth behind fisting. People do enjoy fisting because it is all about giving and receiving. It is one of the most intimate and pleasurable sexual activities that they can share with their partner whom they love and care dearly.
The feeling of being so deep inside their loved ones, the tenderness, warmth and softness of her or his skin makes this sexual act more erotic compared to others such as fingering, tongue and dildo. It is the most beautiful and fulfilling feeling that one can achieve. The term fisting may sound rough but when it is done gently and slowly, it is world’s most amazing feeling.
Great care must be taken when performing gay fisting. You may hurt your partner if it’s not performed properly. Always start slow and gentle.
Always make sure that your fingernails are short, and keep them as short as possible. Not to forget to smoothen them. This is to prevent your fingernails from hurting the inside of your loved ones. Use latex glove to prevent unwanted diseases for instance AIDS.
Get him or her (your partner) to be relaxed, turned on and comfortable. The vagina lengthens and expands when a woman feels relaxed and aroused at the same time. This is very important for the early step of fisting. And as for gay anal fisting, the anus must be similarly relaxed as well and do go gently on your partner because the anus does not produce any lubricant. Forcing a large object into the anus will be very painful. So all you have to do is to take it slowly and gently.
Use as much lube as you can. For gay anal fisting, the lube is very important. You can wear a latex glove to reduce the friction though. Remember to use lube as much as possible. Get it all over your hand, fingers, anywhere!
You have to start slow for fisting. You can’t just roll up your sleeve and push your hand and arm all the way up inside his or her body. Start off with one finger and then followed by two, three and four. Remember to make sure that your partner is at ease and enjoying all this. And here’s a little note; it takes time to stretch the muscle. Some may take several stretching session and some may take weeks before you can get the whole hand in!
Work your way up slowly. Be gentle and sensitive towards your partner’s feelings. You are trying to persuade the body to open up for you so that you can enter it fully. Thrusting in and out, follow the rhythm. Communicate with your partner and help them relax.
If you are working on anal fisting, and your partner’s anus suddenly reaches its limit, their orifice will suddenly shut tightly. In that case, do not pull out at once. Stop right there and wait for a moment. Stay where you are until the contradiction ends. Then slowly pull you hand out.
When you finally reach to your fifth finger, bravo! You are almost there! The most sensitive part is about to be revealed. Your partner is going to be in pleasurably pain. Take the initiative and ask him or her whether they would like to continue or not. Stop and pull out slowly if NO is his or her answer. But if your partner wants it still, then you will want to slip your knuckles inside.
All five fingers are kept straight and held them together to form a shape of a duck beak. Reminder: Please be careful with your nails as you do not want to hurt your partner. Apply steady but slow pressure. For woman, she may start to contract so much that the pressure on your hand is uncomfortable. Hold on there. You will hurt her if you pull out suddenly. The best way is to let her push it out while she is coming. However, if you really need to pull out, talk to him or her and work together.
Do make sure that your partner is ready before you make the big push. Once your knuckle manages to slip pass through the ring of muscle around the vaginal or anus entrance, the pressure will eventually fade away. And now roll your hand into a fist.
Listen to your partner’s request. At this moment when your hand is all inside him or her, they may want or do not want you to make gentle pumping movements inside him or her anymore. Gay fisting can be extremely arousing and pleasurable. When you are done, simply make your hand into the beak shaped again and pull out slowly and gently.
It is very important for you to choose the right person to do this. Of course most of you will go for your partners. Trust is needed to perform this sexual act. Both parties must agree to do this and if you really do not want to try it out, let your partner know. Do not keep quiet. You and your partner must be ready physically and emotionally before trying this out. Remember to use lots of lube. If you think you need more, just pour. Even if you think you do not need anymore, you will still need to pour. You can use latex glove for hygiene purposes. This works as a barrier to infection against AIDS and STD as well as minimizing the friction.
A guy confessed that he tried gay fisting with his boyfriend a few times. It took him about six weeks to get the whole hand into him. As his girlfriend has never heard of “fisting”, this guy guided her. His girlfriend loved it a lot! Especially when he has his whole hand inside him and fists him hard! He had the best time in his life. For the first time he squirts when this guy fists him hard in him ass hole. Since that day onwards, whenever his boyfriend is not around and when he is craving for one, he will fist himself.
There’s a lady that serves to satisfy any customer that comes to see her. There is this particular guy that loves extreme sexual act. One day the guy visited her at her place and everything turns out hot. This guy feeling ultimately horny requested to fist the lady. The lady accepted his request. He works his way from one finger to the second and so on. When he reaches the fifth finger stretching the lady’s vagina, the lady screamed in pleasure. Upon hearing this, the guy pushes in harder. The lady admitted that this guy loves it whenever she screams helplessly in pleasure. Once he got his whole hand, the lady felt so good. She won’t be able to forget this sexual act.
There is a couple. Both are men. They were deeply in love with each other. One day, they tried different stuff during their love making session. But fisting didn’t work out well for that first time. They have stretching sessions regularly and finally guy A manages to insert his whole arm into his partner’s body. His partner was in ecstasy when guy A’s hand was in him. He felt full. Every time guy A rotates his arm he feels wonderful. Guy A will then thrust his penis into his partner’s anus hard while still fisting him. Both of them feel contented and enjoyed every single moment of it. That was a really good experience for the both of them.
There are a few fisting techniques that you can try on.
Knuckles only- Open the opening with one or two knuckles, then work the rest of your knuckles in and start to move them around. The rolling motion inside the anus can be extremely satisfying.
Open Palm Fisting- work all your up with your palm open. Keep your fingers together.
Finger Wave- Your hand inserted fully into the vagina or anus, but with your fingers spread apart. Wiggle them for extra delight.
Twisting- a closed fist is inserted well into the opening. Slowly you can twist your arm back and forth. This technique makes the receiver feels very good and high.
In conclusion, fisting is another way to enjoy sex. It is a very pleasurable sexual act. Besides that, it helps to build trust and respect in a relationship. One of the most beautiful feeling one can enjoy. Some have shared their story of how it improves their sex life; the warmth and contented feeling of fisting. Do try it out! |
